Baby is not mine?
Hello i am a 24 year old male and I am in the army and currently in iraq. I met a woman before i left and we had been dating for about 2 months when she told me she was pregrnant. I aksed her if she was sure it was mine and she said yes. About two months later she told me the baby was not mine and that the real father was a deadbeat. I agreed to accept the baby as my own child and told her to put my name on the birthcertificate.Before i left i brought everything for the baby.(crib and stuff) Well the baby was born and she put the fathers name on it. I went home on leave and found out that she was talking to him through myspace a little flirtashish. We broke up but since then we have started talking again and she says she wants to work it out. I love her so much but i dont know if i can trust her. I love that little girl so much and i dont know what to do somebody help me please. and by the way the female i am talking about is 19. somebody help me figure out what to do
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Damn, that’s a really hard one. First it sounds like you need to sit her down and ask her what she wants and where she sees the relationship going or if she does at all. Then explain why you are hurt. Chances are she isn’t mature enough to even care and you might end up hurting like you are now. But the best you can do is try to talk to her. Tell her everything you just told us. I would also ask for a paternity test. it sounds like she doesn’t even know who it belongs to, and this way if it is yours she cant keep you out of it’s life. And if it’s not you’ll have the same amount of pain you do now.
I can’t imagine the pain you are feeling now, and I’m sorry she was immature enough to put you in this situation. I hope this helps. Goodluck!