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Should i feel bad? my house is a mess with a new baby?

Thursday, May 6th, 2010 at 12:57 pm  
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Should i feel bad? my house is a mess with a new baby?
I just had my daughter 2 weeks ago. I have a horrible headache that has not gone away for a week.
my house is a mess because my head hurts so bad to move i just sit on the couch all day to keep my head from hurting worse.
there is coloring books and colors all over the coffee table with baby blankets
there are clothes all over the loveseat from doing laundry that need to be folded
ther are a few dirt dishes in the sink the counter has junk all over it. there are hangers all over the floor that the kids threw around that were on the loveseat with the clothes. there are baby blanktes and burp cloths pacifiers all over my living room and dining room.

I am going to court in 2 weeks to try and get custody of my two older kids ages 5 and 6. ( their dad will not get a job and keeps getting his elec cut off getting a eviction notice for not paying rent cant pay phone bill gets cable and home phone cut off. gets car in accident but has no car insurance to fix it. so i know that financially we are in a better situation )

well i have had them for the last month for the summer and their dad came and picked them up for their step brothers birthday party. well every time he has came to pick them up in the last couple months my house was spotless sinc ehe picks them up in the evening but today he picked them up at 8am

well first i am asleep still from getting home at 12 from the fireworks lastnight that were down town had to get the kids a bath then get them in bed then give baby a bath feed baby change baby so i was really tired not to mention all the overnight feedings.

so he knocked on the door i didnt know he was here cause i was asleep. my kids opened the door when they know they are not supposed to open the door for anyone

so my daughter comes in the room waking me up saying daddy is here i have no idea how long he has been standing in my doorway and my kids have not eaten breakfast. and they are dressed since i remember my daughter comming up to me earlier and i told her to get dressed for daddy pauls. but i dont know what time that was or if he was possibly here at that time. or if he had just got here when she woke me up the last time.

i am so scared that he is going to say i am a bad parent because i let my kids answer the door, didnt feed them, i was asleep while they were awake watching cartoons. and it was 8 am so he will say that i cant even wake up at 8 howwill i wake up at 6 to get them to school every day

should i worry about this. i am so tired my baby wakes up ever 2 hours and i have to be the one to wake up every time she wakes up since my husband works over night.
answering your questions~~~ my husband is home ( not the father of my two older kids) but he is asleep since he works over nights.

How do I tell my friend her kids have fleas?

Monday, May 3rd, 2010 at 8:16 pm  
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I babysat for a friend recently and gave the baby a bath while here. Later that night, I discovered some bugs, which I think are fleas, crawling inside the tub. Nobody else used the tub between the baby’s bath and when we saw the bugs, and I’ve never seen these bugs before. I can only imagine that they came from the baby’s hair. I’m freaked out that my house will become infested, and my children will get bit. Any advice on what to do next?

have any other girls had to give a boy a bath and experienced ?

Friday, April 30th, 2010 at 8:09 pm  
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has anyone given a boy a bath either baby sitting and or family, and experienced them getting an erection , and what age should a girl not give them a bath ? what did you say or do? Is this ok ?

Would you allow your 4 1/2 yr old take a bath with you every morning?

Tuesday, April 27th, 2010 at 1:00 pm  
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Is this inappropriate at that age, or is he still considered to be a baby?

    why would a baby scream of not wanting to take a bath, ( no abuse has happened) could having nightmares about?

    Saturday, April 24th, 2010 at 9:05 pm  
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    15 mo old girl, loved mommy to give her baths, than one day didn’t like them anymore. (no abuse has accured. Is is possible to have dreams about water and than hate taking a bath?? Is there a Dr. out there that could answer this?

    Throwing the baby out with the bath water?

    Wednesday, April 21st, 2010 at 8:13 pm  
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    Simple question: desperately in love with brother in law (my husband’s brother). He was married until last year and is now a widower.
    He may have a mild crush on me; I am in love with him.
    I don’t want to divorce my husband. I love him too.
    I have decided to withdraw from husband’s family in order to remove my brother in law from my life (and heart AND mind).
    Now, husband’s family are getting antsy about me not showing up anywhere any more. But if I show up he is there and I simply don’t trust me to be able to conceal my feelings for him any more. I have done that for years, just cannot go on.
    I seem to be reaching a dead end. I feel they are starting to get fed up with me for never being there, they think I am mad or something; a couple of them are already giving me the cold shoulder but if I go back I get to see him and I can never heal. I feel more at peace with myself when I don’t see him.
    Do I stick to my guns, so to speak?
    I really do not know what to do any more

    what does a valentine mean with the words dont throw the baby out with the bath water mean??

    Sunday, April 18th, 2010 at 8:10 pm  
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    It from a man im in a kinda relationship with,,it mostly one sided,,he doesnt want me any way…im trying to get over him…im surprised he even took the time to send me a e card… but maybe it just means nothing who knows??
    it was extra words,not on the original card.

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