Can I say I do not want baby’s father to sign birth certificate?
I know it may sound awful, but my child’s father and I were not dating when I got pregnant and have no intention to now that baby is here.
During the pregnancy, the father (Chris) wanted to have nothing to do with me. He even said he wanted to put the baby up for adoption. I told him I did not want to do this, and that even though it would be hard, I could raise the baby on my own.
He said that once baby was born he would want a DNA test, which I was fine with. After my son was born, I offered for Chris to sign the birth certificate while in the hospital. He said he wanted to wait until he got the DNA test.
Well now, he says he doesn’t want to get the DNA test because he just "knows" that baby is his son. That is all fine and well, but he’s all of a sudden gone from not wanting to be involved to wanting to take my 7 week old baby out on his own with him.
He is being very controlling (I.E yesterday wanted me to take baby to his family friend’s house. I said no because baby hadn’t been sleeping very well and needed rest. Chris then replied with "He can sleep in his car seat, he’ll be fine.")
I know he does not have babys best interest in mind-there have been other incidents too.
My question is, can I say that I do not want his name on the birth certificate?
He is not responsible and I just don’t feel comfortable with him being alone with my son.
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Well if you keep his name off you have zero chance of child support and limited access to public assistance programs.
But if he wants to be a good father then let him. He has rights too but you should insist he take parenting courses though so he knows what to do when your son is with him.