Ex-girlfriend is pregnant with my baby, and won’t let me be there for the birth or let me see the baby!! help!
Basically, my girlfriend left me after she realized her and her mother couldn’t manipulate me anymore. She is also evidently VERY mentally unstable. She moved far away back to her parent’s house (300 miles away), and none of them will communicate with me whatsoever…and it’s hard to prove on here, but I really am not a bad guy…she’s just a highly delusional psychopath I think. Has anyone had this situation before? Is there a way I can find out where my baby is being born? It is really very important to me to see my newborn daughter in the hospital nursery, and I will do whatever is necessary. Also, I am very fearful that either her or her mother will do something very crazy, like move her to another state, as they are for some reason hell bent on me not even getting to see my baby girl. Is there any way around this other than hiring a private investigator to monitor her actions, calls, etc..? I thank anyone who can give a serious or helpful response.
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Unfortunately I don’t think there is much chance of you seeing your baby girl the day she is born, sorry. I’m sure you are a nice guy, and by the sounds of it you are going to be a caring father. There isn’t much you can do to track her yourself, and thats actualy considered stalking even though you aren’t doing it in a creepy way. The hospital most likely won’t tell you if she is having the baby there or not, its against the law to reveal whether a patient is staying at the hospital or not (at least where I live) You will probably end up going to family court to get part time or full time custody of your daughter. If you have evidence that she is drinking, doing drugs or that she or her mother might do anything to harm the baby then the court will take it very seriously since its the wellbeing of the child and you will most likely get full custody. If you don’t have evidence, then don’t press it too far and settle for shared custody at the moment or it could make you look out to be vendictive and the judge will not look kindly upon that. What ever you do, stay calm, don’t do anything to try to take your baby girl without the courts permision, and most importantly keep your nose clean! Don’t get so much as a speeding ticket from now on. I wouldn’t go out drinking with friends either because for all you know she or her mother could have hired a private detective and their trying to make you look bad if you fight for custody. My dad’s ex wife did that when they were fighting for custody of my brother. She got pictures of him going to a liquor store (on the 4th of july, go figure!) and tired to use that in court and it worked, she had custody of my brother until he was 14. Anything you do from now on could be looked up and used against you. I wish you luck and it’ll all be fine.
I had a newborn with a ex a month ago I was not aloud to be at the birth her new boyfriend signed for her. And i seen my daughter one time for a month. Now i have to fight her in court and forced a dna test done.. Hopefully you get luckyer than me but probly not.. good luck
same thing has happened to me fellow, my girlfriend left and is 200 miles away with her mum, this friday 28th may 2010 is the 20 week scan to find out weather its a boy or girl, ive stopped talking to her shes so selfish it pisses me off she expects me to tavel up there every weekend to see my baby with her and her family breathing down my back, i fully understand your pridicament, the law is always on the mothers side even if there ill mines got bi polar i think baby be better off with me but i got autism so theres not much chance of that happening, wish the father had nmore rights !!