Just to let you know this is going to be long!!! So me and my mother in law never really got along. when me and my dh were dating she questioned it. And said it was weird that we were dating we were oppisite. Then when we got engaged she wrote him a letter saying it was a mistake she should know, she went through a divorce herself. And it is something my dh is going to regret and that she thinks i have low self esstem and i am just looking for a way out of my life, and that i probably think he is my way out. Well then after we got married she was ok. Always in our business very noisy. But at least she wasn’t saying bad things about our reletionship. And then i got pregnant and she became nicer. And then when we had my dd things were good between us. And since we live far away from her i don’t see her very much. So it was all going fine. And then she came to visit this month. And it was going great i was actually starting to like her. And we were getting along great. And then her sister who lives a few hours away decided she wanted to visit to. Which was fine i like her sister a lot, she has always been very nice to me. Well they were sleeping on an air mattress in my dd room. Well I put my daughter to bed at 8pm and then me and my dh went to bed around 10 and they didn’t go to bed until 10:30ish. And i still wasn’t asleep yet. And i could hear them talking over the baby monitor. (I have a camera baby monitor you can see and hear the baby) I was annoyed that they were talking because i didn’t want them to wake up my dd. But i was like oh well there sister’s and they haven’t seen each other in a long time and it didn’t seem to bother my dd. And then all of a sudden i heard my mother in law talking bad about me and my family to her sister. WTF!! After she talked about me for what seems like forever, they started talking about the baby monitor and how they think it was only a camera and that it doesn’t have a microphone on it so i wouldn’t hear what they were saying. I was so upset i shut off the montior. Woke up my DH and told him. I was so mad i burst into tears. My dh kept saying sorry and said we will deal with it when he comes home from work tomorrow. So we end up going to bed. And in the morning i was still really pissed off about the whole thing. I went into the kitchen and my mother in law and her sister were in there and i got something to drink. And they were like Hi! I said to my mother in law please don’t talk to me right now, i heard what you said last night. And that was very disrespectful. And we start arguing. about the whole thing. She wanted to talk it out. And i didn’t want to because i was to upset. And i told her i could care less if i ever talked to her again. I trusted her and she stabbed me in the back. So she packed all of her stuff and her and her sister left. ( I never told her to leave, but i really didn’t care that she did. How disrespectful talk about me in my own house, in my daughters room) We didn’t hear from them in two days. Then she called. I actdently answered the phone. my caller id didn’t pick up so i didn’t know who it was. She talked to my dh and they decided we all need to talk things out tomorrow. I really don’t want to talk things out. I hold grudges bad. What is there to talk about! Why would she have a good reason for talking behind my back. I don’t know what to do about tomorrow. I don’t think i can forgive her. And if i do i know that i’m not going to really forgive her i am probably only going to forgive her for my dh and dd sake. to make things civil. But still deep down i will be pissed off. And if i do forgive her i don’t want her to stay the rest of the week at my house. I would rather her be in a hotel. what do you think i should do??

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