So heres whats going on. My mom is the main problem here. Im 13 years old and i am told by my parents i have lots of freedom, but it doesnt seem like it to me. Som examples of reasons i dont have enough freedom is:
1. When my friends were over at my house, we were talking and having fun and talking about our lives and problems. Of course, we were also being perverted because thats what teenagers do. I looked behind me and noticed a baby monitor that was turned on. I by my parents room and the door was locked but i heard my friends voices from the other room, so now i know they listen to me on a baby monitor.
2. They get every text i send and recieve on the bill. They know everything going on in my life and how my friends are.
3. Grades. Therapy. "Loss of privaleges" these are all threats that im given when i do something wrong. At the beginning of my 8th grade year, i did not want to be put in all pre-a classes, but my mom told me otherwise. I was struggling in my classes and my mom had fits and cried because of my grades. I lost almost everything because of the classes i was forced to be put into. y mother even thought after me crying so much and arguing with her, that i was going to commit suicide and brought me to therapy even though suicide was definatly not in my interest.

Heres some things you need to know before you answer:
My mother has high blood pressure and has to take pills or her emotions
My dad gets drunk alot and ignores me sometimes and talks about divorce to me, and not my mom.

How do i talk to my mother without her getting mad or sad or whatever? ive tried before but it always seems to be "my fault". please help!
ok so appearently instead of helping with my problem, your telling me how im wrong. You guys may think its ok, but now i feel as if i cant tell her things anymore and im starting to doubt wether i can trust her. If i tell her something that takes me alot of courage, my dad ends up finding out. And the rest of my family. And also im in nationaljunior honor society and make As and Bs, but when i say low grades i mean the B’s. I do help around the house expecially on weekends while my parents are working such as making dinner everynight, cleaning dishes, and laundry work. It just seems to me that if she’s afraid to start letting me go and wants me to stay a kid for as long as possible. Yes, she got me a cell phone at 13, but when i think of cell phones i think of more freedom, but im not getting any at all. She got me unlimited texting, but knows what they all say. Please help me instead of telling me im yng and blahh blaah.

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