i never get to sleep!?
my husband and i have been married for 2 years and we have a 4 months old daughter. i’m a stay at home mom and he’s in the navy, search and rescue. he works crazy hours during the week but the weekends he’s off of course. during the week i wake up with the baby at 7 every morning and take care of her, plus the house and cooking, and grocery shopping. please dont get me wrong, i love being a stay at home mom and taking care of our house and family, but why is it i can never be allowed to sleep in on the weekend? i always tell him to sleep in and rest saturday morning since he’s worked all week but is it too much to ask for me to sleep on sunday? yesterday the baby monitor was going off and i asked him to get up with her please 3 times and he didnt hear me. after 10 minutes i was like fine, just turn the monitor off, and he heard that! he’ll do the "i dont hear you" game or pull the "i’ll get up" and never really move. or he’ll get up and he cant function or some crap. i dont want to
argue with him but every time i hint to how tired i am or something he just doesnt pick it up. i know if i come right out and say something i’ll get the whole "well i offered but you told me to go back to bed"..and i do tell him to go back to bed after it takes him 20 minutes to change a diaper and he just cant wake up! i mean i know he’s tired but so am i. he has to realize that i work too just because i dont leave the home it’s still considered working. any advice on what to do?!
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Hmmmmmmm,that Sounds familiar..LOL but not funny,i know.! Like someone before me said,if he do it you want have nothing but a mess and be mad after..true,true,true..But Im sure your Baby takes a nap.So on the Weekend when he is finaly up and doing ,whatever..and I know he will ask you for something to do for him or help him..Whatever ..just go and lay down when your child is sleep and leave him dry.And let him do what he wants you to do,but make it clear …Im not going to do it ,because im tiered …and dont say nothing else..The next Morning try asking him again to get up and do help with the baby..If he is not ,you play the same game again…Its like a Man game ,that you have to play.I even went as far as not Cooking ,because I was tiered and then he finnaly got the hint..Good luck Siggi