i think i have this figured out a little help please?
i you saw my other question let me know what you think..ok i decided that im going to just do what i gotta do im a smart girl but i made a mistake beliving he would love me and now i think i should just deal with the pain contiue to go to school and worry about me and my child and put him last.im not saying im ready ot leave him yet but i think if i stop letting him come first in my life someday i will be strong enough to walk away..i have enough to worry about with being in college. classes and my baby are my main prority and i know talking to him will only start a fight so im just going to turn to my best friend kentrel he’s been begging me to come move in with him and let him take the load off wold i be wrogn for doing so ?
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ok i’ve been with this guy for almost a year and were having a baby now.but still i feel like were going no where.he’s been hurt alot and just doesnt want to think about our future he just wants to wait and sees what happens.he was with this one girl for five years and they have a daughter togehter and now were having a daughter but i feel like he regrets my daughter.i asked him to night if there was anything he regreted about us he said no and he wasn’t thinkin of my feelings he was being honest.but he won’t help me finacially at all he says he wont let another woman take him for his money and i understand that truly i do,it just hurts that after all this time he wouldnt trust me that way and i only asked him for money once and it was only 20 dollars and to night i asked for help paying my cell phone bill and he said he cant help me because he’s payin for the car his baby momma driving he doesnt want his daughter walking which i understand but when i asked him to help me buy our baby car seat and stuff he put it off to the last thing.i just feel like his past is holdin us back and i want to be with him and i know he wants to be with me but i dont know how long im going to have to stick around for him to see that all i want is for him to love me because i love him with all my heart i dont know what to do and i’ve spent my entire pregnancy crying.he says im pushing him away because sometimes i get sad and shut him out and i dont want to i just dont know what else to do to deal with the pain,and to make him see me for who i am and not who he’s afriad i will become.
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You may not want to hear this but I am going to be straight with you. You are miserable and you are miserable because you are not being cared for lke you should be. And I am not talking about money……..I am talking about just cared for. When a man loves you, there are no questions and you have peace knowing that he is there for you and wants you to be happy. You have too many questions with this guy and no matter what you want it to be with him, that is never going to make him different. He has put himself in this situation and he needs to be responsible to his other child too. It’s the law!!! And screw him for treating you that way and for just being who he is. You deserve better and I wouldn’t waste any more time with this one. I would make sure that to take him to court for what he is responsible for………that is all you need from that man (nothing else). You need to take care of yourself, your baby, and school. Don’t waste any more time with this one. You dont’ have to make it a war, just let him know that he isn’t what you need and you need to move on. Please don’t stress over him, he is not what you REALLY want.