My parents found out my husband and I are planning to have a baby and I am devastated.?
My husband and I plan to get pregnant in about 9 months when I am 24 and he is 26. A friend gave us a bouncer seat and bassinet since her baby just grew out of it.
The baby items were sitting in our living room and my father dropped by unexpectedly and saw them. My husband told him that we weren’t hiding a pregnancy, but we had the stuff so we can prepare for a baby. My father didn’t seem upset.
This is why I am upset: I know my dad went home and told my mother. My mother has a HUGE problem with us having a baby, that’s why we weren’t telling her anything. She thinks I should wait until I am 30 and she seems to not want to be a grandmother in her late 40’s.
I didn’t want her to know because she will just say negative things and make me upset about planning a baby.
She did this with my engagement too!
Its done and over with but I am still depressed that my mother knows. I think I am going to avoid her for a while.
What do you think? What should I do?
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30s isn’t a very good age to have a baby (not that its bad). Its a little late as per me. After 30 its a little hard to conceive and miscarriage is possible. But it all depends upon ones health. But I will say having a baby in 20s is not a bad decision.I guess you don’t want your child to still be in school when its time for you to retire from your job. My boss had a baby when she was 36 and the baby looked kinda huge a little odd.
If you and your husband are well settled and there will be no problem in bringing up a child then go for it. As per your mother I don’t know she may be right or wrong (no comments on that).
But I guess she’ll be fine after she sees the baby………Babies are sooo innocent and I am sure her heart will melt after seeing her grand child.
Good Luck!!