ok boyfriend problem please help i have no where to turn really?
ok i’ve been with this guy for almost a year and were having a baby now.but still i feel like were going no where.he’s been hurt alot and just doesnt want to think about our future he just wants to wait and sees what happens.he was with this one girl for five years and they have a daughter togehter and now were having a daughter but i feel like he regrets my daughter.i asked him to night if there was anything he regreted about us he said no and he wasn’t thinkin of my feelings he was being honest.but he won’t help me finacially at all he says he wont let another woman take him for his money and i understand that truly i do,it just hurts that after all this time he wouldnt trust me that way and i only asked him for money once and it was only 20 dollars and to night i asked for help paying my cell phone bill and he said he cant help me because he’s payin for the car his baby momma driving he doesnt want his daughter walking which i understand but when i asked him to help me buy our baby car seat and stuff he put it off to the last thing.i just feel like his past is holdin us back and i want to be with him and i know he wants to be with me but i dont know how long im going to have to stick around for him to see that all i want is for him to love me because i love him with all my heart i dont know what to do and i’ve spent my entire pregnancy crying.he says im pushing him away because sometimes i get sad and shut him out and i dont want to i just dont know what else to do to deal with the pain,and to make him see me for who i am and not who he’s afriad i will become.
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Oh honey, I’m sorry but I have to agree that he’s got to go. You can’t spend your life waiting around on him, and his "wait and see" thing is just him not wanting to commit. I’m sure he has been hurt before but YOU didn’t do it and it wouldn’t be fair for you to pay for some other girl’s mistakes. Especially if you are dealing with an ex with a child, you have to be respected. He should take responsibility and take care of his daughter, but the LAST thing you want is to be financially dependant on this guy (or any guy for that matter)…if you depend on him for everything, you are in a situation where you and your daughter could get stuck. You should get out there and make a life for yourself; being in love should just be a bonus.