Sunday, June 20th, 2010 at 5:50 am
I already posted this question but left out some details…..
I am seeing my boyfriends baby for the first time tonight. It will be the first time that he’s going to spend the night with him. He doesn’t have a car seat but said he has to get one real soon. I wanted to surprise him with a car seat for him. Do you think that would be a nice thing to do???
added details: I dated this guy 4 years ago for 3 years. We are in a very established relationship and have been dating now for 4 months. He hasn’t had many visits with the child because there was a paternity test done and the mother didn’t want him to see him a whole lot till that was done. Now that it has come back and the child is his, he’s going to start weekend visits. Its not that he wasnt concerned for his childs safety…..
the mother is bringing him tonight…. so he wont be without a car seat.
Wednesday, June 9th, 2010 at 12:59 pm
my husband and i have been married for 2 years and we have a 4 months old daughter. i’m a stay at home mom and he’s in the navy, search and rescue. he works crazy hours during the week but the weekends he’s off of course. during the week i wake up with the baby at 7 every morning and take care of her, plus the house and cooking, and grocery shopping. please dont get me wrong, i love being a stay at home mom and taking care of our house and family, but why is it i can never be allowed to sleep in on the weekend? i always tell him to sleep in and rest saturday morning since he’s worked all week but is it too much to ask for me to sleep on sunday? yesterday the baby monitor was going off and i asked him to get up with her please 3 times and he didnt hear me. after 10 minutes i was like fine, just turn the monitor off, and he heard that! he’ll do the "i dont hear you" game or pull the "i’ll get up" and never really move. or he’ll get up and he cant function or some crap. i dont want to
argue with him but every time i hint to how tired i am or something he just doesnt pick it up. i know if i come right out and say something i’ll get the whole "well i offered but you told me to go back to bed"..and i do tell him to go back to bed after it takes him 20 minutes to change a diaper and he just cant wake up! i mean i know he’s tired but so am i. he has to realize that i work too just because i dont leave the home it’s still considered working. any advice on what to do?!
Sunday, May 30th, 2010 at 5:45 am
I do have 6 kids in my house hold My sister is 17 and has a son i believe he is 4 months. She leaves him with my wife for 2 or 3days at a time usually on weekends. When the baby is with my sister all she does is complain about him criing. I know that being a single parent is not easy, but I do not think she is even triing. My sister calls my wife in the middle of the night, wanting her to go over her house and get Adam. The last time my wife went to pick up Adam she said that he was in his car seat on the porch by himself criing. If my wife tries to give her advice my sister starts yelling. This morning when my sister left him here criing my wife gave him some baby food and he went to sleep. I am not real sure how much a 4 mth old should weigh but he ways 12 pds. my baby is his age and she weights 17 pds. My wife and I think something should be done, but not sure what we can do. Should we call CPS or just try to get a lawyer and take the baby from her?
My parents will not have anything to do with this matter because my sister had sex before she was married. We are cancerned for this baby and my sister.
When my sister talks about Adam she normally calls him "it" take it, its hungry I get so mad at her for calling him it.
Oh when Adam is at my house he hardly ever cries. My wife says Adam and our baby usually wake up criing about 10:30pm she changes them and feeds them and they both go back to sleep
