ok i’ve been with this guy for almost a year and were having a baby now.but still i feel like were going no where.he’s been hurt alot and just doesnt want to think about our future he just wants to wait and sees what happens.he was with this one girl for five years and they have a daughter togehter and now were having a daughter but i feel like he regrets my daughter.i asked him to night if there was anything he regreted about us he said no and he wasn’t thinkin of my feelings he was being honest.but he won’t help me finacially at all he says he wont let another woman take him for his money and i understand that truly i do,it just hurts that after all this time he wouldnt trust me that way and i only asked him for money once and it was only 20 dollars and to night i asked for help paying my cell phone bill and he said he cant help me because he’s payin for the car his baby momma driving he doesnt want his daughter walking which i understand but when i asked him to help me buy our baby car seat and stuff he put it off to the last thing.i just feel like his past is holdin us back and i want to be with him and i know he wants to be with me but i dont know how long im going to have to stick around for him to see that all i want is for him to love me because i love him with all my heart i dont know what to do and i’ve spent my entire pregnancy crying.he says im pushing him away because sometimes i get sad and shut him out and i dont want to i jus
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i you saw my other question let me know what you think..ok i decided that im going to just do what i gotta do im a smart girl but i made a mistake beliving he would love me and now i think i should just deal with the pain contiue to go to school and worry about me and my child and put him last.im not saying im ready ot leave him yet but i think if i stop letting him come first in my life someday i will be strong enough to walk away..i have enough to worry about with being in college. classes and my baby are my main prority and i know talking to him will only start a fight so im just going to turn to my best friend kentrel he’s been begging me to come move in with him and let him take the load off wold i be wrogn for doing so ?
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ok i’ve been with this guy for almost a year and were having a baby now.but still i feel like were going no where.he’s been hurt alot and just doesnt want to think about our future he just wants to wait and sees what happens.he was with this one girl for five years and they have a daughter togehter and now were having a daughter but i feel like he regrets my daughter.i asked him to night if there was anything he regreted about us he said no and he wasn’t thinkin of my feelings he was being honest.but he won’t help me finacially at all he says he wont let another woman take him for his money and i understand that truly i do,it just hurts that after all this time he wouldnt trust me that way and i only asked him for money once and it was only 20 dollars and to night i asked for help paying my cell phone bill and he said he cant help me because he’s payin for the car his baby momma driving he doesnt want his daughter walking which i understand but when i asked him to help me buy our baby car seat and stuff he put it off to the last thing.i just feel like his past is holdin us back and i want to be with him and i know he wants to be with me but i dont know how long im going to have to stick around for him to see that all i want is for him to love me because i love him with all my heart i dont know what to do and i’ve spent my entire pregnancy crying.he says im pushing him away because sometimes i get sad and shut him out and i dont want to i just dont know what else to do to deal with the pain,and to make him see me for who i am and not who he’s afriad i will become.
We are married for 4 years. During that 4 years i’ve never felt any mistrust from my husband until recently. i noticed the following and please tell me if i’m right to think that my partner is doing something wrong:
- a month ago he started removing the baby car seat from the car. this happens twice and i asked him why and he answered – i don’t know. just feel like taking it out. after that he never takes the car seat out of the car anymore.
- everytime we go out on weekend and go the malls, i tried to ask him to buy some clothes for him…we will end up window shopping because we have a baby in tow. i went out vacation last week and when i came back he bought himself some new clothings. he said that he has nothing to do when i was away so he did some shopping for himself and easier to do it without the baby in tow.
- Every once a month he has to work over-night to do a big back-up (computer work) this is ok because he has been doing this since we are dating so i’m aware of it. but my question is the last time he did this he came home not looking tired for lack of sleep. He did not even sleep the whole day thinking that he works over-night! am i missing somethign here??? he simply just said he couldn’t go to sleep.
- a co-worker called him on his mobile on tuesday night. he says it is work. it is the first time a lady co-worker called him at home. most of the time it is a male co-worker. on Wednesday morning on going to work he wears his brand new t-shirt and pants!
could you please help me justify if my feelings are correct for thinking that my partner is up to something that is not good for our marriage?
thanks i’m sure your comments will surely help me think.
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i hate him so much right now i know the things he’s saying are just to piss me off and he go’s and does them anyway then after i’m done crying and everything he gets all "i’m sorry i won’t do it again!" "it won’t happen again, I’ll stop!"
i am 7 months pregnant with his daughter and i told him everything i want to do for the baby cause the baby has to come first now! (that doesn’t seem to be getting thought that big head of his!!!!) i told him how i want us to read to the baby at least(!) 4 times a week! everything was going good and we were doing fine until after he leaves me at his house with no where else to go with His mother(!) saying he’s going to me working with his cousin at his uncles smoke shop! the place is like 3 hours away so they just stayed there of course. he called when he could and let me know how things were going. he kept talking about all the things he wanted to get after he got back, like things for the baby and things for the house and our room etc. then he go’s and says he’s going to be coming back with a car cause his cousin was going to loan him the money. so we’d have a car of our own when he comes back. well that was like 2 months ago and you know what NONE of that happened.
so far the things h bought for the baby is an outfit! and a stroller and baby car seat from a second hand store. His sister bought an outfit for the baby too but that doesn’t count for him. that’s it. the rest of the clothes I got from stores and people who have (i guess you can say) hand-me-downs for my baby cause they’re not planning on anymore children.
all he does is play his stupid game!(X-BOX 360) plays the stupid X-BOX LIVE all the time! he gets mad easily and gets mad over a stupid Game! then go’s out and spends money on a dumb game that isn’t his (the x-box is his cousins) and rents other stupid video games that get him mad! all this shit adds up he could be getting some nice stuff out baby’s going to need but no he has to go and be a dumb ass and be selfish and not care about me or his baby i swear im about to leave him
i’m always mad and getting mad at the wrong people and taking it out on the wrong people and i’m just getting tired of it. it’s like he doesn’t even care. he says he does but his actions are sure telling me the opposite
he’s told me some mean things he says he doesn’t mean but for some stupid reason i keep letting them go he isn’t abusive physical but he can be. he’s only pushed me and it was onto a couch. he’s mostly verbally abusive. i’m getting real tired of it.
Guys why do you lie!? and not care. why bother lieing when you don’t care!?
* we were not even fighting as I went to bed at 10pm, by 4:40, I have the 2 little girls in bed with me and we are only trying to sleep * He takes both sets of car keys, leaving me with no keys * He takes my vehicle * He takes the only vehicle with the baby car seat in it, she doesn’t even feel well so even if I had to bring her somewhere I can’t…. * leaves his cell phone at home – he’s unreachable * So drunk, unreachable, and I come to find out he gets cigarettes and goes right to his ex wifes house…. so we know where he runs to now….. * And he gives me such grief if I practically even mention my oldest daughters dad…
