My husband and I are due with our first baby in June. He is so bad with money that I begged him to save for our honeymoon, and he spent it all and we ended up staying in hotels in Gatlinburg. And he didn’t even have THAT planned! Now we are expecting our first baby in June. He is planning on filing bankruptcy because he is so upside down on his mortgage (mostly because he took out 0k second mortgage and blew it on trips overseas and a sailboat). We got in a huge fight yesterday because he says things like cribs and changing tables are convoluted lies taught to women over hundreds of years that they need for babies…. and got furious and said "guess I’ll never have any money". Left me in tears because I just don’t know what to do. I just overheard him in the other room planning a trip to Germany with his best friend for the huge beer festival there…3 months after our baby is born when our apartment lease is up and we are supposed to be moving. And he is not planning on ME going! What do I do? I’m so lost! I’m a conservative Christian…I don’t even believe in drinking and he goes and gets trashed all of the time. I know I should just blame myself since the Bible says to be "equally yoked" but he pretended to have changed before we ever started dating. Now I am in my 3rd trimester and have nothing for this baby except a stroller. What do I do????