Help!Baby Mama Situation Need Legal Advice?

Tuesday, May 4th, 2010 at 1:03 pm  
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Ok So this is for my soon to be husband. About a year and a half ago he had a child with his ex. ( there was no fighting more then raising a voice in this releationship) Everything was was great until one day when the child was 2 months old. They had just got done shopping at the mall as a family and as my bf was taking stuff into the house expecting his babies mama to be getting his daughter and being right behind him.. he turned around to seeing her get into the drivers seat and driving off. This was the last time he saw his daughter. He thought she must have forgot something but when she didnt return he called her parents to find out she went there. Might I also add she never worked the whole 3 years they were together. about a month before their kid was born he lost his job due to poor economy. but was looking everyday for a new one and bills were paid. When he talked to her on the phone she said she needed a few days to think and he said he drove to her parents for them to talk and left on a good note. when he got back to his house he found her dad in his house taking his babies crib and her belonging. He then said 2 weeks later he went to her parents house and asked to see his daughter. She wouldnt allow him and called the cops saying he was trying to break in which was a lie. then a few days later he came home to relize she had broke in his house and stole all of the pictures of his daughter and had put a restraining order on him saying he abused he and that she was afraid for her life and a bunch of lies. he missed his daughters first xmas and birthday. she hit him up with child support which he is back on 3000 but the reason for that is because she lived in a very small town and her family is well known there and is family friends with the judge, he has tried to get a lawyer but there is only 3 in the area and none will represent him because they ARE either related or friends with the family. This is why it has been son long. He is so depressed and feels like there is no hope. How can I help him? I NEED to find a way to get his daughter back before it is to late. This is in West Plains MO.. Any legal help would be amazing. and also he is on probation because he tried to call once and she called the cops saying he broke his restraining order but he didnt leave a message or even get ahold of anyone but when he went to court and told the judge that she hit him with 2 years probation. PLEASE HELP!!
Dont waste your time to answer if your going to be negative. I know my partner and KNOW he isnt abusive. Her family didn’t like him because he was from the city and not a country boy and They lived with his brother and his wife for a year and I they even said that they never fought .. that she was a quiet girl.. She suffered from panic attacks but that was all. She put a restraining order on everyone in his family.. mom dad step mom four brothers.. their wives.. …. he filed for visitation and she filed for sole custody. it hasnt went to trail yet because of the restraining order which is set until see stops breast feeding. when she took the photos of his daughter from his house she left a note saying to forget he ever had a daughter. This was planned and plotted. We think she may have either been cheating or suffered post part um depression. and his child support his paid monthly he just has some back child support because the judge set it rediculasy high. and a lawyer wont travel
and it is my biz.. im his best friend and i need to do my best to help him through situations like this.. imagine if you were in his shoes. his probation officer cried when he told her the story of why he was in there. He is not lying or anything like that. This girl is sick and she wanted people to feel sorry for her and attention. I am a mother myself and this woman has prohibited her child from one of the most loving caring fathers there is out there and trust me they are very hard to come by. I pray that no one has to ever see what I have seen this man cry for.. I hope no one is ever hurt like the way he was.. Every Thing I say is truth..cant you awnser based on that? Why are you so quick to judge?

Weird Neighbors leave their car seat outside?

Thursday, April 15th, 2010 at 12:57 pm  
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My husband and I were married 6 months ago. We’re still in college, and we live in the basement of a house which was turned into a four-plex. The people above us have three little girls under the age of 5. The wife really likes to talk. Every time she comes over, she ends up staying over an hour. I like her alright, I just wish she were a little bit less chatty when I have to be doing things.

She and her husband aren’t very well off financially (as she has told us numerous times – the electricity going out because they can’t pay their bills, her complaining to me about having to sell their TV, her five year old is in daycare but she can’t pay for it – but the lady who does it lets her go for free anyway). A few days ago I finally decided that their halloween jack-o-lantern pumpkins were way too gross and they needed to get thrown away. They were sitting under the roof almost exactly where the rainwater falls, and they were completely rotting and disgusting.

After throwing them out and hosing off the place where they had been, it wasn’t even a few hours before this neighbor had put her CAR SEAT in the same exact spot.

More description: there are two doors to enter our apartment. One is the back door that we share, and the front door is just ours. These people who live above us have the same back door but a different front door. The other two people who live in our house only have the back door. She is storing her car seat next to the back door that we ALL use.

There are lots of stray cats around this neighborhood. Not to mention she put her carseat in the same exact spot where a disgusting pumpkin used to be, and where the rain will inevitably drench her little ones’ seat. I think it’s nasty. Plus, it’s an eyesore. We all use that door, she shouldn’t have the right to make it her personal storage unit. Why can’t she put her carseat outside her front door, which nobody else shares?

I would be more sympathetic if, for example, her baby had thrown up on the carseat and she wanted it to air out. But no, it’s been days and days, and she is storing it right there. Every time I leave the house, I want to put an anonymous note on it that says something nasty like, "YOU WANT YOUR KID TO SIT IN CAT URINE?" etc.

What do you think I should do?

why is my husband treating me like a baby?

Thursday, April 15th, 2010 at 12:47 am  
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im 2 months pregnant. my husband read somewhere the first trimester is the most important one, and hes been treating me like a kid ever since. doesnt let me get up from bed to even get a glass of water for myself! i wasnt feeling too well a few days back and he called my parents to stay come stay with us for a week. hes treating me like a baby:( is he worried abt me or the baby?

  
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