Wednesday, May 5th, 2010 at 3:31 pm
ok i’ve been with this guy for almost a year and were having a baby now.but still i feel like were going no where.he’s been hurt alot and just doesnt want to think about our future he just wants to wait and sees what happens.he was with this one girl for five years and they have a daughter togehter and now were having a daughter but i feel like he regrets my daughter.i asked him to night if there was anything he regreted about us he said no and he wasn’t thinkin of my feelings he was being honest.but he won’t help me finacially at all he says he wont let another woman take him for his money and i understand that truly i do,it just hurts that after all this time he wouldnt trust me that way and i only asked him for money once and it was only 20 dollars and to night i asked for help paying my cell phone bill and he said he cant help me because he’s payin for the car his baby momma driving he doesnt want his daughter walking which i understand but when i asked him to help me buy our baby car seat and stuff he put it off to the last thing.i just feel like his past is holdin us back and i want to be with him and i know he wants to be with me but i dont know how long im going to have to stick around for him to see that all i want is for him to love me because i love him with all my heart i dont know what to do and i’ve spent my entire pregnancy crying.he says im pushing him away because sometimes i get sad and shut him out and i dont want to i just dont know what else to do to deal with the pain,and to make him see me for who i am and not who he’s afriad i will become.
Sunday, May 2nd, 2010 at 8:13 am
ok i’ve been with this guy for almost a year and were having a baby now.but still i feel like were going no where.he’s been hurt alot and just doesnt want to think about our future he just wants to wait and sees what happens.he was with this one girl for five years and they have a daughter togehter and now were having a daughter but i feel like he regrets my daughter.i asked him to night if there was anything he regreted about us he said no and he wasn’t thinkin of my feelings he was being honest.but he won’t help me finacially at all he says he wont let another woman take him for his money and i understand that truly i do,it just hurts that after all this time he wouldnt trust me that way and i only asked him for money once and it was only 20 dollars and to night i asked for help paying my cell phone bill and he said he cant help me because he’s payin for the car his baby momma driving he doesnt want his daughter walking which i understand but when i asked him to help me buy our baby car seat and stuff he put it off to the last thing.i just feel like his past is holdin us back and i want to be with him and i know he wants to be with me but i dont know how long im going to have to stick around for him to see that all i want is for him to love me because i love him with all my heart i dont know what to do and i’ve spent my entire pregnancy crying.he says im pushing him away because sometimes i get sad and shut him out and i dont want to i jus
Thursday, April 29th, 2010 at 10:00 pm
My husband and I plan to get pregnant in about 9 months when I am 24 and he is 26. A friend gave us a bouncer seat and bassinet since her baby just grew out of it.
The baby items were sitting in our living room and my father dropped by unexpectedly and saw them. My husband told him that we weren’t hiding a pregnancy, but we had the stuff so we can prepare for a baby. My father didn’t seem upset.
This is why I am upset: I know my dad went home and told my mother. My mother has a HUGE problem with us having a baby, that’s why we weren’t telling her anything. She thinks I should wait until I am 30 and she seems to not want to be a grandmother in her late 40’s.
I didn’t want her to know because she will just say negative things and make me upset about planning a baby.
She did this with my engagement too!
Its done and over with but I am still depressed that my mother knows. I think I am going to avoid her for a while.
What do you think? What should I do?
Thursday, April 29th, 2010 at 3:21 pm
i you saw my other question let me know what you think..ok i decided that im going to just do what i gotta do im a smart girl but i made a mistake beliving he would love me and now i think i should just deal with the pain contiue to go to school and worry about me and my child and put him last.im not saying im ready ot leave him yet but i think if i stop letting him come first in my life someday i will be strong enough to walk away..i have enough to worry about with being in college. classes and my baby are my main prority and i know talking to him will only start a fight so im just going to turn to my best friend kentrel he’s been begging me to come move in with him and let him take the load off wold i be wrogn for doing so ?
and if you dont konw the story here you go ……
ok i’ve been with this guy for almost a year and were having a baby now.but still i feel like were going no where.he’s been hurt alot and just doesnt want to think about our future he just wants to wait and sees what happens.he was with this one girl for five years and they have a daughter togehter and now were having a daughter but i feel like he regrets my daughter.i asked him to night if there was anything he regreted about us he said no and he wasn’t thinkin of my feelings he was being honest.but he won’t help me finacially at all he says he wont let another woman take him for his money and i understand that truly i do,it just hurts that after all this time he wouldnt trust me that way and i only asked him for money once and it was only 20 dollars and to night i asked for help paying my cell phone bill and he said he cant help me because he’s payin for the car his baby momma driving he doesnt want his daughter walking which i understand but when i asked him to help me buy our baby car seat and stuff he put it off to the last thing.i just feel like his past is holdin us back and i want to be with him and i know he wants to be with me but i dont know how long im going to have to stick around for him to see that all i want is for him to love me because i love him with all my heart i dont know what to do and i’ve spent my entire pregnancy crying.he says im pushing him away because sometimes i get sad and shut him out and i dont want to i just dont know what else to do to deal with the pain,and to make him see me for who i am and not who he’s afriad i will become.
Tuesday, April 13th, 2010 at 10:08 am
Hi, I’m having a baby and I would like some help in what stores are cheap to buy baby stuff from cribs, strollers etc. everything for a baby it can be online or something in NY.
Thank you.
