Sunday, May 30th, 2010 at 5:45 am
I do have 6 kids in my house hold My sister is 17 and has a son i believe he is 4 months. She leaves him with my wife for 2 or 3days at a time usually on weekends. When the baby is with my sister all she does is complain about him criing. I know that being a single parent is not easy, but I do not think she is even triing. My sister calls my wife in the middle of the night, wanting her to go over her house and get Adam. The last time my wife went to pick up Adam she said that he was in his car seat on the porch by himself criing. If my wife tries to give her advice my sister starts yelling. This morning when my sister left him here criing my wife gave him some baby food and he went to sleep. I am not real sure how much a 4 mth old should weigh but he ways 12 pds. my baby is his age and she weights 17 pds. My wife and I think something should be done, but not sure what we can do. Should we call CPS or just try to get a lawyer and take the baby from her?
My parents will not have anything to do with this matter because my sister had sex before she was married. We are cancerned for this baby and my sister.
When my sister talks about Adam she normally calls him "it" take it, its hungry I get so mad at her for calling him it.
Oh when Adam is at my house he hardly ever cries. My wife says Adam and our baby usually wake up criing about 10:30pm she changes them and feeds them and they both go back to sleep
Saturday, May 15th, 2010 at 10:02 am
Long story short, the same week I found out I was pregnant with our son, I found out my boyfriend of a year had been cheating on me with a girl that moved to TX from MO just to be closer to him. She knew him from college, actually before me, and upped her life to move here for a guy she apparently got to see once a month. Go figure. Upon discovery of all this fairytale, we both went to her house, she was told to leave him/us alone, etc. My whole pregnancy entailed about 9 tires I had to replace at 5 a tire. They would be maliciously slashed on inside walls, as a trooper so nicely pointed out. Along with him receiving these letters (more like books) and every thing he did, every where he went, & every one he saw, and always always hateful towards me. Long story short, he obviously never let her completely out of his life. I got my last tire slashing the last time I let him "live" with us, also these letters stopped then too. Now, he lives with her & she is so great. Him, nor his family seem to get that I simply can not have this chick around my baby. Hello, he can’t even speak. I know she did these things & a few others. If he is going to go live with her now, how can he possibly get an overnight visits over there. I honestly think she so delusional over him & sees our baby as a threat. I ran into them completely by surprise the other day & when dad of the year bent down in the stroller to see his baby I thought she was gonna have a heart attack on the spot. How can I keep this psycho away from my child?
I was just informed that him & his mommy plan on filing for visitation/custody. That’s why I am like; what can I do? I just got layed off & they totally know I can not exactly afford an attorney like mommy’s money over there can.
Tuesday, May 4th, 2010 at 1:03 pm
Ok So this is for my soon to be husband. About a year and a half ago he had a child with his ex. ( there was no fighting more then raising a voice in this releationship) Everything was was great until one day when the child was 2 months old. They had just got done shopping at the mall as a family and as my bf was taking stuff into the house expecting his babies mama to be getting his daughter and being right behind him.. he turned around to seeing her get into the drivers seat and driving off. This was the last time he saw his daughter. He thought she must have forgot something but when she didnt return he called her parents to find out she went there. Might I also add she never worked the whole 3 years they were together. about a month before their kid was born he lost his job due to poor economy. but was looking everyday for a new one and bills were paid. When he talked to her on the phone she said she needed a few days to think and he said he drove to her parents for them to talk and left on a good note. when he got back to his house he found her dad in his house taking his babies crib and her belonging. He then said 2 weeks later he went to her parents house and asked to see his daughter. She wouldnt allow him and called the cops saying he was trying to break in which was a lie. then a few days later he came home to relize she had broke in his house and stole all of the pictures of his daughter and had put a restraining order on him saying he abused he and that she was afraid for her life and a bunch of lies. he missed his daughters first xmas and birthday. she hit him up with child support which he is back on 3000 but the reason for that is because she lived in a very small town and her family is well known there and is family friends with the judge, he has tried to get a lawyer but there is only 3 in the area and none will represent him because they ARE either related or friends with the family. This is why it has been son long. He is so depressed and feels like there is no hope. How can I help him? I NEED to find a way to get his daughter back before it is to late. This is in West Plains MO.. Any legal help would be amazing. and also he is on probation because he tried to call once and she called the cops saying he broke his restraining order but he didnt leave a message or even get ahold of anyone but when he went to court and told the judge that she hit him with 2 years probation. PLEASE HELP!!
Dont waste your time to answer if your going to be negative. I know my partner and KNOW he isnt abusive. Her family didn’t like him because he was from the city and not a country boy and They lived with his brother and his wife for a year and I they even said that they never fought .. that she was a quiet girl.. She suffered from panic attacks but that was all. She put a restraining order on everyone in his family.. mom dad step mom four brothers.. their wives.. …. he filed for visitation and she filed for sole custody. it hasnt went to trail yet because of the restraining order which is set until see stops breast feeding. when she took the photos of his daughter from his house she left a note saying to forget he ever had a daughter. This was planned and plotted. We think she may have either been cheating or suffered post part um depression. and his child support his paid monthly he just has some back child support because the judge set it rediculasy high. and a lawyer wont travel
and it is my biz.. im his best friend and i need to do my best to help him through situations like this.. imagine if you were in his shoes. his probation officer cried when he told her the story of why he was in there. He is not lying or anything like that. This girl is sick and she wanted people to feel sorry for her and attention. I am a mother myself and this woman has prohibited her child from one of the most loving caring fathers there is out there and trust me they are very hard to come by. I pray that no one has to ever see what I have seen this man cry for.. I hope no one is ever hurt like the way he was.. Every Thing I say is truth..cant you awnser based on that? Why are you so quick to judge?
Monday, April 26th, 2010 at 10:35 pm
We are married for 4 years. During that 4 years i’ve never felt any mistrust from my husband until recently. i noticed the following and please tell me if i’m right to think that my partner is doing something wrong:
- a month ago he started removing the baby car seat from the car. this happens twice and i asked him why and he answered – i don’t know. just feel like taking it out. after that he never takes the car seat out of the car anymore.
- everytime we go out on weekend and go the malls, i tried to ask him to buy some clothes for him…we will end up window shopping because we have a baby in tow. i went out vacation last week and when i came back he bought himself some new clothings. he said that he has nothing to do when i was away so he did some shopping for himself and easier to do it without the baby in tow.
- Every once a month he has to work over-night to do a big back-up (computer work) this is ok because he has been doing this since we are dating so i’m aware of it. but my question is the last time he did this he came home not looking tired for lack of sleep. He did not even sleep the whole day thinking that he works over-night! am i missing somethign here??? he simply just said he couldn’t go to sleep.
- a co-worker called him on his mobile on tuesday night. he says it is work. it is the first time a lady co-worker called him at home. most of the time it is a male co-worker. on Wednesday morning on going to work he wears his brand new t-shirt and pants!
could you please help me justify if my feelings are correct for thinking that my partner is up to something that is not good for our marriage?
thanks i’m sure your comments will surely help me think.
