Saturday, May 15th, 2010 at
10:02 am
Long story short, the same week I found out I was pregnant with our son, I found out my boyfriend of a year had been cheating on me with a girl that moved to TX from MO just to be closer to him. She knew him from college, actually before me, and upped her life to move here for a guy she apparently got to see once a month. Go figure. Upon discovery of all this fairytale, we both went to her house, she was told to leave him/us alone, etc. My whole pregnancy entailed about 9 tires I had to replace at 5 a tire. They would be maliciously slashed on inside walls, as a trooper so nicely pointed out. Along with him receiving these letters (more like books) and every thing he did, every where he went, & every one he saw, and always always hateful towards me. Long story short, he obviously never let her completely out of his life. I got my last tire slashing the last time I let him "live" with us, also these letters stopped then too. Now, he lives with her & she is so great. Him, nor his family seem to get that I simply can not have this chick around my baby. Hello, he can’t even speak. I know she did these things & a few others. If he is going to go live with her now, how can he possibly get an overnight visits over there. I honestly think she so delusional over him & sees our baby as a threat. I ran into them completely by surprise the other day & when dad of the year bent down in the stroller to see his baby I thought she was gonna have a heart attack on the spot. How can I keep this psycho away from my child?
I was just informed that him & his mommy plan on filing for visitation/custody. That’s why I am like; what can I do? I just got layed off & they totally know I can not exactly afford an attorney like mommy’s money over there can.
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Tuesday, May 11th, 2010 at
10:06 am
My husband and I are due with our first baby in June. He is so bad with money that I begged him to save for our honeymoon, and he spent it all and we ended up staying in hotels in Gatlinburg. And he didn’t even have THAT planned! Now we are expecting our first baby in June. He is planning on filing bankruptcy because he is so upside down on his mortgage (mostly because he took out 0k second mortgage and blew it on trips overseas and a sailboat). We got in a huge fight yesterday because he says things like cribs and changing tables are convoluted lies taught to women over hundreds of years that they need for babies…. and got furious and said "guess I’ll never have any money". Left me in tears because I just don’t know what to do. I just overheard him in the other room planning a trip to Germany with his best friend for the huge beer festival there…3 months after our baby is born when our apartment lease is up and we are supposed to be moving. And he is not planning on ME going! What do I do? I’m so lost! I’m a conservative Christian…I don’t even believe in drinking and he goes and gets trashed all of the time. I know I should just blame myself since the Bible says to be "equally yoked" but he pretended to have changed before we ever started dating. Now I am in my 3rd trimester and have nothing for this baby except a stroller. What do I do????
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Wednesday, May 5th, 2010 at
3:31 pm
ok i’ve been with this guy for almost a year and were having a baby now.but still i feel like were going no where.he’s been hurt alot and just doesnt want to think about our future he just wants to wait and sees what happens.he was with this one girl for five years and they have a daughter togehter and now were having a daughter but i feel like he regrets my daughter.i asked him to night if there was anything he regreted about us he said no and he wasn’t thinkin of my feelings he was being honest.but he won’t help me finacially at all he says he wont let another woman take him for his money and i understand that truly i do,it just hurts that after all this time he wouldnt trust me that way and i only asked him for money once and it was only 20 dollars and to night i asked for help paying my cell phone bill and he said he cant help me because he’s payin for the car his baby momma driving he doesnt want his daughter walking which i understand but when i asked him to help me buy our baby car seat and stuff he put it off to the last thing.i just feel like his past is holdin us back and i want to be with him and i know he wants to be with me but i dont know how long im going to have to stick around for him to see that all i want is for him to love me because i love him with all my heart i dont know what to do and i’ve spent my entire pregnancy crying.he says im pushing him away because sometimes i get sad and shut him out and i dont want to i just dont know what else to do to deal with the pain,and to make him see me for who i am and not who he’s afriad i will become.
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Sunday, May 2nd, 2010 at
8:13 am
ok i’ve been with this guy for almost a year and were having a baby now.but still i feel like were going no where.he’s been hurt alot and just doesnt want to think about our future he just wants to wait and sees what happens.he was with this one girl for five years and they have a daughter togehter and now were having a daughter but i feel like he regrets my daughter.i asked him to night if there was anything he regreted about us he said no and he wasn’t thinkin of my feelings he was being honest.but he won’t help me finacially at all he says he wont let another woman take him for his money and i understand that truly i do,it just hurts that after all this time he wouldnt trust me that way and i only asked him for money once and it was only 20 dollars and to night i asked for help paying my cell phone bill and he said he cant help me because he’s payin for the car his baby momma driving he doesnt want his daughter walking which i understand but when i asked him to help me buy our baby car seat and stuff he put it off to the last thing.i just feel like his past is holdin us back and i want to be with him and i know he wants to be with me but i dont know how long im going to have to stick around for him to see that all i want is for him to love me because i love him with all my heart i dont know what to do and i’ve spent my entire pregnancy crying.he says im pushing him away because sometimes i get sad and shut him out and i dont want to i jus
Thursday, April 29th, 2010 at
3:21 pm
i you saw my other question let me know what you think..ok i decided that im going to just do what i gotta do im a smart girl but i made a mistake beliving he would love me and now i think i should just deal with the pain contiue to go to school and worry about me and my child and put him last.im not saying im ready ot leave him yet but i think if i stop letting him come first in my life someday i will be strong enough to walk away..i have enough to worry about with being in college. classes and my baby are my main prority and i know talking to him will only start a fight so im just going to turn to my best friend kentrel he’s been begging me to come move in with him and let him take the load off wold i be wrogn for doing so ?
and if you dont konw the story here you go ……
ok i’ve been with this guy for almost a year and were having a baby now.but still i feel like were going no where.he’s been hurt alot and just doesnt want to think about our future he just wants to wait and sees what happens.he was with this one girl for five years and they have a daughter togehter and now were having a daughter but i feel like he regrets my daughter.i asked him to night if there was anything he regreted about us he said no and he wasn’t thinkin of my feelings he was being honest.but he won’t help me finacially at all he says he wont let another woman take him for his money and i understand that truly i do,it just hurts that after all this time he wouldnt trust me that way and i only asked him for money once and it was only 20 dollars and to night i asked for help paying my cell phone bill and he said he cant help me because he’s payin for the car his baby momma driving he doesnt want his daughter walking which i understand but when i asked him to help me buy our baby car seat and stuff he put it off to the last thing.i just feel like his past is holdin us back and i want to be with him and i know he wants to be with me but i dont know how long im going to have to stick around for him to see that all i want is for him to love me because i love him with all my heart i dont know what to do and i’ve spent my entire pregnancy crying.he says im pushing him away because sometimes i get sad and shut him out and i dont want to i just dont know what else to do to deal with the pain,and to make him see me for who i am and not who he’s afriad i will become.
Friday, April 23rd, 2010 at
10:55 pm
(okay this is a lot, i hope you like reading)
i hate him so much right now i know the things he’s saying are just to piss me off and he go’s and does them anyway
then after i’m done crying and everything he gets all "i’m sorry i won’t do it again!"
"it won’t happen again, I’ll stop!"
i am 7 months pregnant with his daughter and i told him everything i want to do for the baby cause the baby has to come first now!
(that doesn’t seem to be getting thought that big head of his!!!!)
i told him how i want us to read to the baby at least(!) 4 times a week!
everything was going good and we were doing fine until after he leaves me at his house with no where else to go with His mother(!) saying he’s going to me working with his cousin at his uncles smoke shop! the place is like 3 hours away so they just stayed there of course.
he called when he could and let me know how things were going.
he kept talking about all the things he wanted to get after he got back, like things for the baby and things for the house and our room etc.
then he go’s and says he’s going to be coming back with a car cause his cousin was going to loan him the money. so we’d have a car of our own when he comes back.
well that was like 2 months ago and you know what
NONE of that happened.
so far the things h bought for the baby is an outfit! and a stroller and baby car seat from a second hand store.
His sister bought an outfit for the baby too but that doesn’t count for him.
that’s it.
the rest of the clothes I got from stores and people who have (i guess you can say) hand-me-downs for my baby cause they’re not planning on anymore children.
all he does is play his stupid game!(X-BOX 360)
plays the stupid X-BOX LIVE all the time!
he gets mad easily and gets mad over a stupid Game!
then go’s out and spends money on a dumb game that isn’t his (the x-box is his cousins) and rents other stupid video games that get him mad!
all this shit adds up he could be getting some nice stuff out baby’s going to need but no
he has to go and be a dumb ass and be selfish and not care
about me or his baby
i swear im about to leave him
i’m always mad and getting mad at the wrong people and taking it out on the wrong people and i’m just getting tired of it.
it’s like he doesn’t even care.
he says he does but his actions are sure telling me the opposite
he’s told me some mean things he says he doesn’t mean but for some stupid reason i keep letting them go
he isn’t abusive physical but he can be. he’s only pushed me and it was onto a couch.
he’s mostly verbally abusive.
i’m getting real tired of it.
Guys why do you lie!? and not care.
why bother lieing when you don’t care!?
Friday, April 16th, 2010 at
2:10 pm
i’m cleaning out my kids closet to make xtra money
they wear mostly name brands such as:Gymboreee, gap,little me, old navy, bonnie baby, ralph & tommy.
do they generally give good deals for the clothes, or only offer a small price"? iam not sure which place i can use to make the most money . Iam also considering sell it on ebay sibnce I already have an account with over 250 positive feedbacks.but i heve never sell there before
any advice would be welcome THANKS!!
